One of the great benefits of working with seniors is the many stories they share. Many of today’s elderly are part of “The Greatest Generation.” They lived through the depression, fought in World War II, and raised families in an ever-changing society. As someone new to their lives, I get a real “glimpse” into the life they led and their many trials, tribulations and triumphs.
Some of those “stories” are powerful and life-changing.
I recently attended a memorial for Lila, a woman who was small in stature, but huge in how she lived her life. The eulogies for Lila were many…and, each and every one of them, from grandchildren to elderly siblings, were more inspiring than the next. They all shared personal stories from her amazing matzo ball soup to the special notes and letters sent to various family members.
Lila lived her life to the fullest…..many would say she lived the “American Dream”…simple beginnings, hard work, family values and eventual financial success. Once they “made it”, Lila and her husband shared it with those less fortunate. She believed in education, philanthropy and giving back. She also treasured family and religious customs.
When her husband passed away twenty years ago, within a week, she was at his desk running the business just as he did for four decades. There wasn’t a choice, she needed to carry on.
Lila’s story is one of many…..
When I get asked about why I work with the elderly, I usually say, “I love their stories”. I am inspired by how they overcame life’s challenges and, ultimately, persevered. You can see that “sparkle” in their eyes when they share their personal stories.
While Lila is gone, the richness of her story remains in the hearts of many. I am confident that will offer some comfort, during a difficult time, to her many family and friends.
Take a moment and think about an elderly relative or friend in your life, and ask them to tell their “story”. The emotional impact could be profound.